Live As If Your Soulmate is About to Come into Your Life

The Law of Attraction states that you will attract to you those people, events and experiences that match your state of being. If you focus on having gratitude for the love, companionship and joy you have in your life right NOW, you will attract more of that into your life. If you focus on what you don’t have, you will send out a message of lack and you will attract more lack into your life.


In the movie conversations with God, the character Neale says to God, I just want my life back. And God says to Neale, You can’t have anything that you want. They then have an entire dialogue where God explains to Neale that by ‘wanting something (or someone)’ all you get to have is the experience, the feeling of ‘wanting.’

As part of the preparation to manifest your soul mate I suggest that you begin the process of “living as if.” This means that your daily actions become congruent with your beliefs. For instance, I once heard a story about the great actress Della Reese. During the time she was waiting for her soul mate to arrive, she would set a place at the table for him each time she had a meal. Eventually, he arrived. Della had sent a clear message to the Universe and the Universe delivered.

Next time you are shopping for greeting cards, begin to buy some that express your love and joy for your beloved knowing that someday you will give them to him or her. Are there things for your home you are waiting to buy (or hoping that you will someday get as wedding gifts)? Buy them now! Imagine that you have been selected to host a King or Queen. What would you need to do to prepare your home? New sheets? Towels? Dishes? Plant a garden? Clear the clutter? You’ll know when you really, really believe your soul mate is on the way because creating the space for them in all areas of your life will become a priority.

The period of time when you are waiting for your soul mate to arrive offers an important opportunity for self-reflection. Consider this: If your soul mate had the ability to see your life right now, would you (and they) be happy with what they were observing? Are there things you would change once they arrive? Begin to live your life today AS IF they are already here. This may mean that you give up casual sex with your ex-lover or neighbor.

Remember, the process of attracting your soul mate is one of magnetism. When you make the choice to live as if your soul mate is already a part of your life, you send out an irresistible signal to the Universe that you are ready now. (As opposed to sending the signal that you’ll be ready someday – when you work less and your house is clean and you’ve lost ten pounds). Remember the famous line in the 1989 movie, Field of Dreams .starring Kevin Costner? “If you build it, they will come.” Living “as if “ is like flipping on a light switch inside your heart. This is the light your beloved will use to navigate his or her way to your door.

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The Law of Attraction

The Law of Attraction is the universal law that can help you find your soulmate. It says that you will attract to you those people, events, and experiences that match your state of being. If you focus on having gratitude for the love, companionship, and joy you have in your life right now, you will attract more of that into your life. If you focus on what you don’t have, you will send out a message of lack and you will attract more lack into your life.

In the movie “Conversations with God” the character Neale says to God: “I just want my life back.” And God says to Neale: “You can’t have anything that you want.”

They then have an entire dialogue where God explains to Neale that by ‘wanting something (or someone)’ all you get to have is the experience, the feeling of ‘wanting'. I think there's something to be learned from that.

As part of the preparation to manifest your soul mate I suggest that you begin the process of “living as if.” This means that your daily actions become congruent with your beliefs. For instance, I once heard a story about the great actress Della Reese. During the time she was waiting for her soul mate to arrive, she would set a place at the table for him each time she had a meal. Eventually, he arrived. Della sent a clear message to the Universe and the Universe delivered.

Many years ago, there was a woman by the name of Gayle that was advised by her astrologer to put her intentions for a soul mate into the world by coloring a mandala. She took a black & white mandala and a rainbow of multi-colored pencils and began declaring her intentions while she colored in a space on the mandala. She asked for things like: finding the perfect spiritual friend and lover to go through life with; a man who is kind to animals; someone who would appreciate her sense of humor; a man who would be accepting and open to her spiritual quest. For each intention she used a different color until the entire mandala became a multi-hued Technicolor testimony to the qualities she desired in her future partner. Within weeks of doing this she met her soul mate and they have now been married for more than 20 years!

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Tips for Women by a Woman

Over the years, I have observed a common trend with women, not all women but a sizeable portion of the female population, they seem to be very insecure physically and sexually. In my opinion, these insecurities lead women to do some detrimental things in and to their relationships. Women, you need to empower yourselves. Embrace your body (it is the only one you own), get informed about what you like and don’t like sexually and learn that sex is meant to be enjoyed. It is very important to remember that communication is the key to any great relationship and a sexual relationship is no different. Everyone has insecurities but they don’t have to interfere in a healthy relationship. Talk to your partner about the insecurities you have, work on them and get ride of them, or at least get them at a manageable level.

Here are a few tips to help you become the woman you and your man would like you to be, a confident woman who doesn’t focus on your (or his) previous relationships and a woman who communicates not criticizes:

1. Know you are a goddess! Show that confidence. It is very intoxicating to a man if you show him how confident you are about yourself and your sexual techniques. Men love it when women aren’t insecure about themselves or their relationships. If you don’t quite believe you are a goddess yet, try to wear things that make you feel sexy and confident, go get a makeover at the salon, get your nails done and keep telling yourself you are a sexy goddess until it becomes a reality for you. Just remember to keep doing things that make you feel good about yourself. Get a hobby or an activity that is all your own. That will help build confidence as well. It also shows your man that you have your own interests outside the relationship.

2. Ladies stop asking your men about previous girlfriends and the sexual acts they performed on your man. You don’t need to know that and I’m sure he doesn’t really want to talk to you about it. It only leads to feelings of jealousy and that has no place in ahealthy relationship . The same goes for you, stop telling him about your ex-boyfriends and what things they may have done for you sexually or how many times a day you did it, etc…etc. Men don’t want to feel like they are being compared just like you don’t want to drive yourself crazy thinking about everything his ex did with him and trying to live up to some standard you have created in your mind. You were not there you couldn’t possibly know what they were like together and besides there are reasons these people are ex-boyfriends/ex-girlfriends let it go and don’t bring the toxic feelings about your ex’s into your current relationship. Your man is with you, not them, start fresh and leave those ex’s in the past were they belong.

3. Never criticize your man’s efforts in the bedroom. Criticizing is a way of telling him he is not doing things the way you want them done. This can be very hurtful and one of the biggest turn-offs to the person who is being criticized and also often leads to resentment. It maybe true that you are not getting the results you want in the bedroom but criticizing him about it isn’t the way to fix it. Instead be direct and communicate with your man. It is not his fault he doesn’t know what you like if you haven’t told him already in no uncertain terms. Tell him what you want and how you want it. He is then not left guessing about where he stands in his abilities and he doesn’t feel stupid because you belittled him about his technique.

Remember don’t be so hard on yourself, enjoy your body, love your life, don’t try to be someone you are not and above all else try to be happy about anything and everything as much as possible.

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How to Manifest a Soul Mate

I first became a believer in Feng Shui more than a dozen years ago when I moved into a new home in a new city. I had Feng Shui master come to my house to advise me on everything from which room to use as my office, to where to place the furniture, mirrors, plants, artwork, bells, chimes, etc.


Within months of moving into this home, and following his recommendations, I saw my career and finances skyrocket. Within two years, I met my soul mate. I don’t claim to understand how it works, but it’s worked for me (and most of my friends) and I believe there are some very useful “feng shui” things to do when preparing to manifest a soul mate.

Feng Shui is an ancient Chinese science that has many branches and is practiced in a number of ways. It means Wind and Water. The basic essence of Feng Shui is to create positive flow of energy throughout your home. With the use of a “Bagua” (which is classically an octagon shape, and in some modern form schools of Feng Shui is presented as a map or grid that is similar to a tick tack tow board, each home or room is divided in eight main areas of “guas.” They include: Wisdom & Self Knowledge, Career, Helpful People & Travel, Children & Creativity, Fame & Reputation, Wealth & Prosperity, Health & Family, and of course love and marriage.

One of the main tenants of Feng Shui is related to eliminating clutter. By eliminating clutter we remove blocks to love and increase the flow of positive energy. Just as we focus on eliminating the clutter from our minds and hearts, we must also remove the physical clutter from our homes in order to manifest a soul mate.

I believe it’s important to create “space” in your home (and especially in your bedroom) by making and keeping some free space in the closet. It’s also helpful to keep the night stand on “their” side of the bed clear and empty so that when person arrives, he or she can fill it with their own personal items. Creating this type of space in your home sends a clear and specific message to the Universe that you are ready for someone to join your life and share your bedroom.

If you find that you are resistant to making room for your soul mate in your closets it may be a sign that you are not ready for your soul mate in your life. By creating physical space in your home (and your heart) you are putting out a “cosmic welcome mat.” So if you come across some resistance, use it as an opportunity to do deeper, more emotional work to overcome the blocks you may still have.

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Empty

I closed my eyes this
Tuk trying to forget
Any fond memories of you
About my dream

The more I try
More real Bayangmu
Penetrated down to the soul


God please help me
I do not know where you are
My life feels empty without you

Did you miss me there
Like myself who always miss you
Always miss you

I can not deny
You are the only
Who can make my soul
Who had died a mean
But now you're gone
Like the earth swallowed
Did you never knew
Meaning of your love for me

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Five Steps to Finding Your Soulmate

Many times I talk to people who ask the questions: "Why cant I find a good man/woman?" " Why do I keep making the same mistakes in my relationships?"

When you are in between relationships, there is much introspective work to do. Without taking the time time to look at yourself, you are often in the position of repeating the same patterns over and over again.




1. Get very clear about who you want for your life partner. It is helpful to write an actual list. Because of the way the Law of Attraction works, you want to make sure you record the traits, qualities and characteristics of the person you want to attract into your life. Be very careful you arent recording the things you dont want. Whenever you focus on things you dont want, the Universe actually brings you more of the same, which explains why some of the same patterns are repeated over and over again.



Think about physical, intellectual, emotional, financial, relationship and spiritual characteristics you want in your soulmate. Divide your list into three categories. One is non-negotiables you wont live without. Another is important characteristics you definitely want in your soulmate and third are those "nice to have" items. They would be nice to have but you would be willing to compromise on them.



2. Take a close look in the mirror, asking the question, Am I being the person who would attract my desired soulmate into my life? Often you know what you want in your life but dont take the time to determine if you are the person your soulmate would be attracted to. You may be seeking someone trustworthy but you are seeing other people behind his or her back. You may want someone mature who doesnt bring a lot of drama, yet you have drama all around you.



3. Dig deeper into your subconscious awareness. On the outside, you may appear to be the person who will attract your soulmate, however, when you look deeper you realize you have some subconscious beliefs that prevent you from connecting with the person of your dreams. You may believe that deep down at your base level, there is something wrong with you and you dont deserve to be happy in a relationship. Perhaps someone you care deeply for doesnt have a happy relationship in their life and you dont want them to feel bad if you find one for yourself. You may believe you will lose yourself in a relationship. You may think if you open yourself up to real love, you will do something to ruin it and have to suffer the pain of it ending.



There may be many of these subconscious beliefs that get in the way of you manifesting the person you want in your life. One way to access that subconscious information is to ask the question, What would I have to give up to have the relationship I want? Allow yourself to ponder this question while going deeper into your subconscious for the answer. As long as the information remains subconscious, you cant counterbalance it with helpful beliefs. It must be brought into the light.



The fourth step of this process is to honestly and accurately evaluate whether your actions, thoughts, and feelings are consistent with attracting the soulmate you want. If your answer is yes, then you can proceed to Step Five. If your answer is no, then move to Step Four.



4. Reinvent yourself. Make a plan and following it about what you need to change to become the person your soulmate will choose to share his or her life with. This can involve changing things you do as well as the harmful things you think.



5. Believe it is going to happen. Once you have done the work to get clear about what you want and then transformed yourself into the person who will attract that person, simply rest in the knowledge that its just a matter of time. Your soulmate is on his or way into your life. Know that you are perfectly content and complete while you are patiently waiting.



Remember, while you wait, your soulmate may be doing his or her own assessment and evaluation of whether he or she can attract you.
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If you want to learn how to get girls, the great news is that you can do one even better than that. You can get girls to want to pick you up.

The secret lies in becoming a natural with girls. A 'natural' is a guy who can attract almost any girl he interacts with. He can also get girls on dates anytime he pleases. I know that may sound far-fetched, but here's the reality:

a) Almost all guys are naturally attracted to physically good-looking girls. If a beautiful girl walks into a room, you can bet that all the guys in the room will be sexually attracted to her.

b) Almost all girls are naturally attracted to certain male behaviors and personality traits. If a confident guy walks into a room, regardless of his looks, you can bet that all the girls will feel a certain level of sexual attraction for him.

He'll then need to ensure that he continues to behave in an attractive way if he wants his pick of the best girls available. For example: Being confident, being great at conversation, getting along with others in social situations, being an alpha male, knowing how to flirt and use humor, displaying attractive body language - and so on.

If he doesn't behave in an attractive way, he simply won't be able to attract and maintain the interest of the best girls and will almost always have to settle for second best...or nothing at all.

The great news is that when you develop the behaviors and personality traits that naturally attract girls, you will attract girls without having to think about it. Some of the common questions I get at this point:

1. How long will it take me to get to the point of being a natural? How long it takes to become a natural depends entirely on:

a) How committed you are to achieving this goal. For example: You may be really excited about learning to become successful with girls. Yet, if you don't actually approach any girls with the knowledge and advice I give you, not much will change and the 'magic' of The Flow will not work for you.

Commitment in this area involves taking risks. By risks, I mean doing things that are outside your comfort zone. For example: Approaching girls in bookstores might be outside your comfort zone. However, in this e-Book you will learn exactly what you need to do to successfully meet, attract and date girls that you meet in bookstores (and any other place for that matter!).

You will have the knowledge. You will know how to do it. But will you?

b) What your 'follow-through' is like. The guys that have achieved the most success with learning how to get girls are those who have followed-through by:

1) Going out to socialize at least 2 nights per week to work on the areas that require improvement.
2) Keeping an active list of the areas that are 'achieved' and those which 'need some work.'
3) Spending plenty of time and energy to ensure that they are integrating effective mindsets.

Here's a useful exercise to accelerate your progress:

a) Buy a notepad to write on.
b) At the end of each reading session, set aside 5 minutes to briefly write down what you have learnt, in your own words. Writing it in your own words helps with remembering it.
c) Go out and practice what you have learnt, by interacting with girls.
d) On the last 5-10 pages of the notepad, make a list of areas that you have 'achieved' and those which 'need some work.'

For example: Achieved - I am now great at approaching girls and starting up simple conversations. My body language is a lot more confident now.

Needs some work - My conversations need to include more flirting. I need to maintain more eye-contact when interacting with girls. When I started to write things down, I got more focused and achieved my goals faster. It's up to you.

c) The level at which you are starting this journey. Okay, this is a big one too.

The reality is that some of you reading this may have been in a number of relationships, never been with a girl, rarely approached girls, only been with girls who have 'picked you up' (i.e. they basically handed themselves on a platter to you), you've been married and the list goes on.

But, it doesn't really matter how many girls you've been with. What matters is this: Are you currently doing the things that naturally attract girls to you? Are you currently approaching girls in the correct way and then progressing things toward a date?

If not, then you must decide to take action. Learn all the things you need to do to attract girls, such as: Building confidence, mastering your conversation skills and learning how to flirt.
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How To Turn Friends To Lovers?

I think of myself as a BIG fan of romantic relationship that evolves out of deep friendship and yours would be no exception. That said, there is a risk to crossing over from fellowship to romantic couple. For one thing, your fiance may not require the friendship to switch. She may love you like a friend, but not have feelings that run deeper. Eventually, some couples make great friends and pathetic lovers.

On the flipside, there are lots of benefits of moving a fellowship to a romantic relationship. One advantage is that you both already know the good, the bad and the repellent about one another. I am assuming by your question this hasn't happened yet.
A love worth experiencing is a love worth a risk. To me this suggests taking a leap into the dark and get out of the friend zone. To find out if your girl is interested in taking the comradeship to a different level you're going to need to ask her. You might plan a trip for the 2 of you, which would give you an advantage of pointing out how well you both get along and how vital she is in your life. A trip would give you the added advantage, should a romance be on the horizon, of making a chance to become more than friends and move the friendship to intimacy.
If planning a trip is a little overwhelming, make it a day trip. The 1st part of the day is when the 2 of you can do something fun and venturesome and the evening can be a dinner that is nice and quiet. As she agrees to your points and discoveries, you can take the largest risk and tell her how much you appreciate her in your life, how you've come to realize she's the right girl, and you want to chase these emotions. Her reply will tell you all that you need to understand in order to define if the closeness is prepared to go to the next level.

For more information on how to get out of the friend zone, check out this personal blog.
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She Dumped Me – 5 Things Not To Do Now

You just broke up with your girlfriend or wife, right? In fact, you have to admit to yourself, she dumped me. At the moment, you are angry, hurt and at a loss. What happened to the two of you? You thought things were going so well. And so they were. At first. But maybe you missed the little signs that your girlfriend was changing. Her needs evolved, but you did not. What are you going to do now?


Let a week or two slip by. You broke up, you are single again, but you are not a bad person. Unbelievable as it may sound right now, you will recover. You will love again. You will get your ex back, or you will love someone else.

Your life will go on. Trust me. I have been through this also. The words "she dumped me" keep pounding away in your head, but you are still the same person you were before. That feeling of desperation will pass. Really.

The good news is, many breakups can be fixed. They are not permanent. When the pain and anger have lessened a bit, take some time to think. Do you still love your former girlfriend or wife? Really and truly? Great! Then you can set about to get your ex back. You want to make it as easy and smooth as possible.

Do not put up additional roadblocks and emotional baggage on the path to your renewed relationship. So here are 5 things not to do, in the highly charged period just before and after the breakup.

First, no matter the reason for the breakup, even if she was cheating on you, do not throw a fit and dump or destroy her clothes or other stuff she left at your place. That would show a real lack of class. Instead, pack everything up in boxes and drop it at her new place, her parents' house, or her friend's home. Or ship it to her. Collect.

She will get the point that you want to be over and done with her (for now), but you still treat her stuff, and by extension, her, with respect. She will remember that, and it will pay dividends for you later. What if she threw out or broke your stuff? You have a right to be angry, but do the right thing with her stuff anyway. It is called, taking the high road, and it always pays off in the long run.

Second, as the days and weeks go by after the separation, do not try to argue or fight with her to change her mind, or talk her out of the split. She made her decision, now you both have to live with it. Of course, it does not mean that she will never change her mind again. Not at all. But this is how she feels right now, and you have to accept that and go forward.

Third, You argued with her anyway, and she did not change her mind and take you back. She dumped me, you are thinking. Now she has to take you back to erase that big black blot on your heart. So you start to beg and plead. Wrong move. Keep a little of your self-respect, no matter how much you love her. Remember, even now she wants you to be strong and show some character. Besides, it rarely works.

Fourth, do not date her female friends, or anyone else for that matter. If your ultimate goal is to get my ex back, making her jealous this way usually does not work, and may even backfire on you. If you date her friends, this is likely to make her mad. She is sure to call up the friend and badmouth you, carefully listing all your faults.

However, you can flirt a little! Yes, indeed, you can be friendly and pleasant to your mutual friends, and show some interest in them, without actually going out on a date. Your ex will have difficulty complaining about this. You are both free and single now, so you can do as you like. Up to a point, naturally.

Your ex no doubt knows you well by now. She knows how many girls you dated before the two of you hooked up, and what type of girl you are attracted to. So do not flirt with the dumb blonde, no matter how gorgeous she is. Do not take your ex wife to the restaurant where every waitress knows your name. This will turn her off.

Go somewhere else. And do not use those 2-for-one or discount coupons while you are with her. It makes her feel cheap, like you think she is not worth the full price.

Fifth, Maybe part of the reason you broke up was because you turned into a slob, gained weight or did not do your share of the housework (sharing the housework is really important to a woman). Regardless, now is the time to take yourself in hand. From now on, always be neat, clean, well-groomed and well-dressed, even if you are just going out to the corner store. You never know who you will meet.

Get regular exercise, lose some weight, buy some new clothes and give the old ones to the thrift shop. If you are lonely, get a dog. Dogs are good company, and good conversation starters when you are out in public.

Now that we have covered what not to do, you are ready to move on. You say, I want to get my ex back, so fill your heart with love. Now is the time to take positive action toward this goal.
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Romantic Conversation Starters – 9 Hot Tips to Start a Conversation When Dating

One of the biggest dating challenges is coming up with romantic conversation starters to start the date right. Many people get so anxious that they can’t think of the right words to say. Such situations only bring down their level of confidence in their conversation skills.

Worry no more! Here are 9 romantic conversation starters to help you enjoy your date and stop the frustration of always thinking what to say next.


1) Compliment her looks. Women want to be admired. If she’s wearing an attractive outfit, tell her in a seductive voice, “Wow, you look sexy in that dress. How did you know fashion so well?”

2) Talk about her family if she’s a “family-oriented” person; otherwise, talk about her life as an “independent” lady. Some women care about their family a lot, while some have a “single” mindset.

To find out, you can ask her, “Can you tell me about your family?” If she says that she likes seeing them often, then you can ask her more details about her family. If she says that she’s enjoying a happy single life away from her family, then talk about her adventures on being solo.

3) Talk about her goals and dreams. Today’s women are career superwomen. They strive for achievement. Talking about her career and aspirations will spark a passionate fire within them, so this one of the most effective romantic conversation starters you may use. Let her share her inner enthusiasm for accomplishment and you’ll have a grand date.

4) Ask her about her most memorable life-changing moments. She might recall times when she felt the most positive emotions. She’ll feel good remembering those events that she’ll associate them with you.

5) Ask her what’s her best way to relax and have a good time. If she mentions going to romantic places, you can then talk about exciting locations you’ve been before; invite her to come along with you to those places.

6) If she mentions anything about her cute little nephews or nieces, then that’s a cue to talk about children and babies.

7) State interesting facts about foods and drinks. For example, if she ordered a side salad, you can say something like “Did you know celery can boost your sex drive?” Knowing the health benefits of common foods and drinks can spark many ideas for conversation.

8) Talk about the most touching movie she’s ever seen. If she recalls a scene where she felt in love with a character, you can tell her something like, “If I were him, I’d do the same for you.”

9) If you feel comfortable enough with each other, you may ask, “What’s the sexiest thing you’ve ever done?” Whether she shares an experience or not, she might return the question to you. That’s your opportunity to share any of your daring escapades. Just don’t go overboard though.

Dating should be spent enjoying and having fun; not thinking on what to say next. Use a combination of these romantic conversation starters to get the flow going. Once both of you are in rapport, talking with each other will become as natural as breathing air.
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